BEING FATHER AGAIN

Our life is so mysterious.  Somewhere over there, from although so dark but so peaceful, there the so many tiny throbs nestling in their own world until such given time to carry out the big surprise in our life.  Yes life is mystery, from the moment how we get our first breath and heart beats is wonder, from then on we’ve formed very natural, pure and clean.  We started from so very little and we’ve grown up into our fullest form from so innocent infancy, aggressive youths to erudite elderly.  We’re from nothing that out of nowhere it was all invisible at first but all of a sudden it came to us and we feel it, touch it and see it – our child. 

When life formed from solemnity, you may not have planned but it was not accidental for you chose it.  It is tiny life fruit of love over there, and it is perfect.  Everything happens for reasons, every life is God’s gift and it is sacred.  It is from overwhelming love and care since our origin, that’s make everything on us is so precious.  Thus life is precious, man must be thankful.  For every new life nestling in the womb, every day is miracle carefully carrying that precious life to accomplish.  Regardless if this is the first time or more than first, it is fulfilling for being the man when you can able to give new blessings for his wife, for his first children, for his whole family.  Being father again for the second, third or fourth time, it is always so nice to feel again the joy, the sense of fulfillment, and the beauty of life.  It is so good you feel in-love and to love.

To become father again is bringing back the same old feelings like during the first time: overjoyed, confidence, triumph, truth, realization and faith.  To see the new life that you partake, you feel the new hope because you are receiving the blessings and witnessing again the mystery of life. And to be father again whether it is the first, the second and the third time is renewing the vow to build a family made of love, respect and unity.  It is accepting the burden of being a man, a father, a human.    It is always a magical feeling seeing the new life from you, out of your own flesh and blood.  Seeing that new life is claiming your power and strength but it is not the potent sperms from man’s testis and that tool right there under undies.  It is the person, it is your being, your character, it is your fatherhood makes all these things good and proud.

The father may not literally attached like the mother’s nine months of carriage but every father is equally excited and under pressure the same weight of carrying the baby on the womb.  And when that new little life comes out, it is embracing the whole responsibility.  We know how chaotic, loud and sinful this world we live in, but to lead the children together with their mother, the whole family is bravery.  Every good father is brave.  No matter how many times the trials come, how much load hang into him, how many children rely on him, the father will make ways.  Having a child is every father’s aspiration, achievement and completion that nothing to ask more.  To have second child is another blessings bringing into higher joy. It makes the head of the family more inspired and committed.  More so for the third born to make the family more deserved.  On the fourth child, it is just simply too much to thank for.  More children may come but one thing is for sure, being a father again and again will always make them even stronger, diligent, deserving and greater for these children.