Thursday, June 06, 2024

TRAVELING ALONE

No friends, no problem because travelling alone can be good and enjoyable.  It is not lonely to travel alone.  The freedom, flexibility and peace it gives you are different that enough to not to be lonely.  The idea itself is exciting, fulfilling and rewarding.  Besides, the ability of travelling alone is not for all.

Traveling alone is not sad.  The level of independency is so strong, the freedom is just at your side, it will increase your confidence and you definitely like it.  There are the senses of cleverness, courage, and authenticity to yourself and you are definitely overwhelmed of these.

When your plans did not turn as planned, no one will blame or pressure you.  Similarly, when an untoward incident that out of your hands happens, no one will provoke you and add your dismay for the things that you don’t have control.

The joy of traveling alone is the freedom which is the most satisfying feeling of any human can have.  As an independent and reserved person, I really enjoy travelling alone and it is perfectly okay.  When I travel alone, I travel on my terms, on my phase.  The preparation is easier, I can do the approach on my own way which is relatively much easier.  You may not understand but the conveniency is actually high when I only take care of m yself, I am not responsible with any, I don’t need to worry the accompany, and I can spend more with no guilt of pampering myself.  You can have uninterrupted quality time with yourself, go to new or old places where you please, eat when you want and what you want.  Dining alone is not weird.  It is not uncommon as other might imagine.  The downside I see and the only thing I feel sorry about travelling alone is when I cannot give the same good experience of seeing the beauty of the place to the people I love, and if I could add one more is the lack of person to picture me (but I can ask anyone to take me pictures), but the excitement, satisfaction, learnings, and take aways, are the same or could even more.  I should just say it’s my me-time.

Seing traveling solo is not weird, do not put stigma on it.  There is nothing wrong in traveling alone.  Do not too soon to judge negatively when seeing a person travelling or on vacationing alone, because you never know how accomplished feeling that person has, or is even more than you feel.

When reaching to the point of you cannot have someone to go with, or you do not have someone to talk and appreciate the beauty of the place, you don’t have to worry about these because there is something fulfilling in traveling alone than with company.  Lone is truely a freeing feeling and fulfilling.  It doesn’t immediatey means you are lonely.  Sometimes you just need to have on your own, to be yourself, and have that me-time moments.

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